I know. It's odd to me as well. It's odd that there is supposed to be a higher power involved, but we are left to our own devices, too.

[ so. there's that. thanks, god!! ] But... they're doing the best they can - and I think you're right. If it's a matter of locating them, then we'll just have to do the best we can to support, and find all those little details so we can work together and bring those we've lost home.